You are a BODY with a name, status, age, sex, complexion, status, long hair or short hair or may be no hair. You have past experiences, beliefs and impressions. You are playing your important role in your movie with your name. This is you: You are always happy. Your partner is very happy. Every body loves you and you are like a magnet. A magnet of LOVE. OR You are not happy. You are controlling and possessive in your relationship. You are always in a blame game. You are expecting every thing in your way. You want people to follow your rules as you think that you are always right. External expressions are reflections of our insides, and it is inside ourselves that we can safely experiment with surrendering to what we fear and dislike Surrender:To give up in favor of another Think 100 times before you point a finger at your partner or friend or stranger. Think , what are you asking for and why? You want to be happy and enjoy your relationships. Happiness: You are not happy because you think way too much. You think about your past and future. You are putting conditions on your happiness. Conditions: I need a partner to enjoy my life. I need an expensive sports car. I need a big house. I need more money. I need more luxury. Surrender: Give up your unnecessary needs. Relationships: You are controlling because you are possessive. Surrender: Give up your fear of loosing your partner. Give up your fear of boredom. Give up your fear of being lonely. Give up your LUST. Give up your EGO  Key of Successful relationship: "Let PEOPLE the way they are. Don't write others script. You change yourself before you change whole world" |